Unintentional Exclusion is Still Exclusion
![Detail photograph of "Forest," an impasto abstract painting with blues, greens, white, and yellow.](https://i0.wp.com/www.aprilmariemai.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/IMG_6082.jpeg?fit=800%2C800&ssl=1)
We don’t usually see the hurdles we’ve put up that aren’t hurdles to us. Arts and other types of organizations are often selecting for things they aren’t intending to, and in the process losing access to applicants that could be a great fit.
5 Reasons Not to Seek an Adult Autism Diagnosis
![5 Reasons You Might Not Want to Pursue an Autism Diagnosis as an Adult in the United States. Disclaimer: This is based on my experiences and knowledge and Autistic experiences vary wildly. By April Marie Mai, Autistic Artist 1/12](https://i0.wp.com/www.aprilmariemai.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/5-Reasons-Not-To-Seek-Autism-Diagnosis-1.jpg?fit=800%2C800&ssl=1)
There are many adults realizing they have had Autism all along, and thinking about getting a diagnosis. I am diagnosed. For me the pros outweighed the cons. But it’s important that you know the cons as you’re deciding whether or not to get an Autism Assessment.
Don’t make ANY decisions based on this information. Talk with your doctor and lawyer to figure out what is best for you.
**This is not medical or legal advice.**
Disabled
![Disabled is not a bad word. Disability is neutral; it's not bad or good, it's just a part of life. It's not a choice. Treating it as if it is shameful or bad is ableism. The problem is that disabled people are not included in society. We're not included in plans for spaces or communities. We're not included in having our basic needs met and our voices heard.](https://i0.wp.com/www.aprilmariemai.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/Disabled-is-not-a-bad-word.png?fit=800%2C800&ssl=1)
Disabled is not a bad word.
Disability is neutral; it’s not bad or good, it’s just a part of life. It’s not a choice. Treating it as if it is shameful or bad is ableism.
The problem is that disabled people are not included in society. We’re not included in plans for spaces or communities. We’re not included in having our basic needs met and our voices heard.
6 Ways to Make the Art Community More Accessible
![We all Belong in the Art Community. Let's make it more accessible for Disabled People!](https://i0.wp.com/www.aprilmariemai.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/We-all-Belong.jpg?fit=800%2C800&ssl=1)
Simple ways to make an art community that includes Disabled Artists.
10 Tips to Host a Disability Inclusive Halloween
!["TRICK or treat" in swirly hand lettering by Nicky Laatz with "TRICK" in "Smoke" Painting and "treat" in "Marigold" Painting by me on a crumpled paper background, with "April Marie Mai" at the bottom](https://i0.wp.com/www.aprilmariemai.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/Trick-or-Treat-Smoke-and-Marigold-Post-1.jpg?fit=800%2C800&ssl=1)
Make sure you’re including everyone in the fun!
[Image Description: “TRICK or treat” in swirly hand lettering by @NickyLaatz with “TRICK” in “Smoke” Painting and “treat” in “Marigold” Painting by me on a crumpled paper background, with “April Marie Mai” at the bottom]
Happy Disability Pride Month!
Here are some things you can do to help disabled people: